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. . . 𝐓𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐃𝐔𝐓𝐘 𝐈𝐒 𝐌𝐘 𝑫𝑼𝑻𝒀 ❞

•ᴠᴇʀsᴇs • ᴍᴇᴍᴇs • ɢᴏᴏɢʟᴇ ᴅᴏᴄ • ᴄʀᴇᴅɪᴛ • ᴘʀᴏᴍᴏ•

He is so tired
this shalom aleichem
is shaky and sad
and every verse rhymes
with a tear
the candle flames (lit
seventeen minutes late)
are alight
unlike any hearts here
the angels of shabbos
both look the scene over
then turn to each other
and both heave a sigh
may it be like this next week
the evil one utters
amen
says the good one
the evil asks
why?
this home is a mess
and the people are too
yes, the food is prepared
but that’s all they could do
upset and unsettled
the bed left unmade
the table unset
and the lighting delayed
this shabbos is laden
with hurt and with pain
so how can you see this
and answer ‘amen’?
may it be like this next week
the good one replies
(watching the people
with tears in their eyes)
that candles are kindled
before the sun sets
that through all their struggles
they manage to rest
to honor shabbat
in the ways that they may
they gave it their best
and they got through the day
may it be like this weekly
in every domain
the evil one sighs
and then answers
amen
as shalom aleichem
soon draws to its end
the angels depart
as the lyrics ascend
the house is still filthy
the troubles don’t cease
yet still, here we are
blessing angels of peace
may peace be upon you
they pray in return
perhaps not this week
but the candles still burn
I get variations on this comment on my post about history misinformation all the time: “why does it matter?” Why does it matter that people believe falsehoods about history? Why does it matter if people spread history misinformation? Why does it matter if people on tumblr believe that those bronze dodecahedra were used for knitting, or that Persephone had a daughter named Mespyrian? It’s not the kind of misinformation that actually hurts people, like anti-vaxx propaganda or climate change denial. It doesn’t hurt anyone to believe something false about the past.
Which, one, thanks for letting me know on my post that you think my job doesn’t matter and what I do is pointless, if it doesn’t really matter if we know the truth or make up lies about history because lies don’t hurt anyone. But two, there are lots of reasons that it matters.
- It encourages us to distrust historians when they talk about other aspects of history. You might think it’s harmless to believe that Pharaoh Hatshepsut was trans. It’s less harmless when you’re espousing that the Holocaust wasn’t really about Jews because the Nazis “came for trans people first.” You might think it’s harmless to believe that the French royalty of Versailles pooped and urinated on the floor of the palace all the time, because they were asshole rich people anyway, who cares, we hate the rich here; it’s rather less harmless when you decide that the USSR was the communist ideal and Good, Actually, and that reports of its genocidal oppression are actually lies.
- It encourages anti-intellectualism in other areas of scholarship. Deciding based on your own gut that the experts don’t know what they’re talking about and are either too stupid to realize the truth, or maliciously hiding the truth, is how you get to anti-vaxxers and climate change denial. It is also how you come to discount housing-first solutions for homelessness or the idea that long-term sustained weight loss is both biologically unlikely and health-wise unnecessary for the majority of fat people - because they conflict with what you feel should be true. Believing what you want to be true about history, because you want to believe it, and discounting fact-based corrections because you don’t want them to be true, can then bleed over into how you approach other sociological and scientific topics.
- How we think about history informs how we think about the present. A lot of people want certain things to be true - this famous person from history was gay or trans, this sexist story was actually feminist in its origin - because we want proof that gay people, trans people, and women deserve to be respected, and this gives evidence to prove we once were and deserve to be. But let me tell you a different story: on Thanksgiving of 2016, I was at a family friend’s house and listening to their drunk conservative relative rant, and he told me, confidently, that the Roman Empire fell because they instituted universal healthcare, which was proof that Obama was destroying America. Of course that’s nonsense. But projecting what we think is true about the world back onto history, and then using that as recursive proof that that is how the world is… is shoddy scholarship, and gets used for topics you don’t agree with just as much as the ones you do. We should not be encouraging this, because our politics should be informed by the truth and material reality, not how we wish the past proved us right.
- It frequently reinforces “Good vs. Bad” dichotomies that are at best unhelpful and at worst victim-blaming. A very common thread of historical misinformation on tumblr is about the innocence or benevolence of oppressed groups, slandered by oppressors who were far worse. This very frequently has truth to it - but makes the lies hard to separate out. It often simplifies the narrative, and implies that the reason that colonialism and oppression were bad was because the victims were Good and didn’t deserve it… not because colonialism and oppression are bad. You see this sometimes with radical feminist mother goddess Neolithic feminist utopia stuff, but you also see it a lot regarding Native American and African history. I have seen people earnestly argue that Aztecs did not practice human sacrifice, that that was a lie made up by the Spanish to slander them. That is not true. Human sacrifice was part of Aztec, Maya, and many Central American war/religious practices. They are significantly more complex than often presented, and came from a captive-based system of warfare that significantly reduced the number of people who got killed in war compared to European styles of war that primarily killed people on the battlefield rather than taking them captive for sacrifice… but the human sacrifice was real and did happen. This can often come off with the implications of a ‘noble savage’ or an 'innocent victim’ that implies that the bad things the Spanish conquistadors did were bad because the victims were innocent or good. This is a very easy trap to fall into; if the victims were good, they didn’t deserve it. Right? This logic is dangerous when you are presented with a person or group who did something bad… you’re caught in a bind. Did they deserve their injustice or oppression because they did something bad? This kind of logic drives a lot of transphobia, homophobia, racism, and defenses of Kyle Rittenhouse today. The answer to a colonialist logic of “The Aztecs deserved to be conquered because they did human sacrifice and that’s bad” is not “The Aztecs didn’t do human sacrifice actually, that’s just Spanish propaganda” (which is a lie) it should be “We Americans do human sacrifice all the god damn time with our forever wars in the Middle East, we just don’t call it that. We use bullets and bombs rather than obsidian knives but we kill way, way more people in the name of our country. What does that make us? Maybe genocide is not okay regardless of if you think the people are weird and scary.” It becomes hard to square your ethics of the Innocent Victim and Lying Perpetrator when you see real, complicated, individual-level and group-level interactions, where no group is made up of members who are all completely pure and good, and they don’t deserve to be oppressed anyway.
- It makes you an unwitting tool of the oppressor. The favorite, favorite allegation transphobes level at trans people, and conservatives at queer people, is that we’re lying to push the Gay Agenda. We’re liars or deluded fools. If you say something about queer or trans history that’s easy to debunk as false, you have permanently hurt your credibility - and the cause of queer history. It makes you easy to write off as a liar or a deluded fool who needs misinformation to make your case. If you say Louisa May Alcott was trans, that’s easy to counter with “there is literally no evidence of that, and lots of evidence that she was fine being a woman,” and instantly tanks your credibility going forward, so when you then say James Barry was trans and push back against a novel or biopic that treats James Barry as a woman, you get “you don’t know what you’re talking about, didn’t you say Louisa May Alcott was trans too?” TERFs love to call trans people liars - do not hand them ammunition, not even a single bullet. Make sure you can back up what you say with facts and evidence. This is true of homophobes, of racists, of sexists. Be confident of your facts, and have facts to give to the hopeful and questioning learners who you are relating this story to, or the bigots who you are telling off, because misinformation can only hurt you and your cause.
- It makes the queer, female, POC, or other marginalized listeners hurt, sad, and betrayed when something they thought was a reflection of their own experiences turns out not to be real. This is a good response to a performance art piece purporting to tell a real story of gay WWI soldiers, until the author revealed it as fiction. Why would you want to set yourself up for disappointment like that? Why would you want to risk inflicting that disappointment and betrayal on anyone else?
- It makes it harder to learn the actual truth.
Historical misinformation has consequences, and those consequences are best avoided - by checking your facts, citing your sources, and taking the time and effort to make sure you are actually telling the truth.
A very good point about historical misinformation.
(not the point, I know, but I would counter that there’s not NO evidence that LMA might consider herself trans given a modern gender framework- she definitely expressed affinity for masculinity at times. but the evidence is not remotely sufficient to say “She was definitely 100% a trans man, and if you disagree you’re doing Trans Erasure!!!!” she used only she/her pronouns in life, and only ever lived as a woman at a time when some AFAB people DID transition- see above re: James Barry. what I usually say is “she had experiences that now resonate with some trans men and queer women)
(but this post is excellent and a must-read!)
may I also add a point?
- It leads us to believe that we live at the pinnacle of progress in all ways. We talk a lot about learning from the mistakes of the past, whtich is important. But it’s equally crucial to learn from their successes (eg. the tax rate on the wealthy being MUCH higher in the 1920s US than it is now, far more/cheaper public transit existing in this country even up to the 1970s, more institutionalized textile/food/paper waste reuse in the 19th century, clothing that is not made of plastic, etc.). If we believe that the past was an inferior hellhole in every respect, we’ll be less likely to realize that some of the problems we face today don’t have to be this way, and in fact have solutions we’ve known about for centuries.
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a collection of custom Jewish tattoo designs, 2020-2023
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Moon Knight 2021 as text posts part TWO my brain has rotted
Hotdogs! 🌭 {grant}
🌭 - Hotdogs! Do they eat hotdogs at all? Do they use a lot of condiments? Toppings? Or just plain?
🌯 - Fast food!
Jake has his diner and bars niche. Steven likes nice places too much. Both like the “people-y” experience of going out, connecting with others. Enjoying the experience.
So, that leaves Marc’s post-MKing around options to be dawn o'clock McGriddles or breakfast burritos. He (as Mr. K) is usually seen grabbing takeout from local places around the Midnight Mission. He just wants his food and to go away.
🍧- Shaved Ice! Have they ever had it? What flavor would you get? Does ice hurt their teeth? Do they have to wait until it melts and it's more of a slush? {please ignore Beth screeching a rant about how it's SHAVE ice, not shaveD ice}
-jots the correction down- Shave Ice.
I don’t think they’ve had Real Shave Ice. Just Snow Cones, which are crunchy and bad and everyone feels bad. The syrup goes to the bottom too.
So, what I’m saying is that Beth should take one of them to get some.
🍔 - Burger! Do they prefer them on a charcoal or propane grill? No preference? How do they stack their burgers? What type of bun do they use?
Marc vc: “There’s a difference?” Honestly, they’re not picky at how the burger is prepared.
In a world of “Dracula, you big fucking nerd, where’s my money” and “Let’s get this bread -falls down in an alley, bleeding-” memes, I swear this is a real comic panel.